He only wants it to "hug back" one particular person, when they hugs him. His issue is that it "hugs back" that nick whenever ANYONE hugs THAT person instead of only when HE hugs that person.
I am not sure of the exact code he needs but I see what he is saying.
could be
ON EVENT:PHEONIX hugs $me*:#: timer 1 2 describe $chan hugs $nick back <3
idk for sure