here is a better version of my nick notifier i didn't make this script all credit goes to RusselB it is now in a menu with enable and dissable. new UPDATE now instead of a query it sends them a notice

#nick_notify on
on *:TEXT:$($+(*,$me,*)):*:{ /notice $me $nick has said you name on # $nick has said $1- $+ 
  /notice $nick i have been informed by a higher sorce that you have said my name in # and if i am here i will contact you asap.
} 
#nick_notify end 
menu * { 
  Nick Notify is $group(#nick_notify).status 
  .Turn Nick Notify $iif($group(#nick_notify).status == on,Off,On) : $iif($group(#nick_notify).status == on,.dis,.en) $+ able #nick_notify 
}