$iif exist :D
remember the $anick too
on $^*:text:$(/\s\Q $+ $me $+ \E\b|(\s\Q $+ $anick $+ \E)\b/iS):#:{ haltdef | echo -abflimt $iif(# $cid != $active $activecid,You were highlighted in # by $nick saying:,$+(2,<,$nick(#,$nick).pnick,>)) $1- }
not tested